40 Secrets Surgeons Won’t Tell You
Updated: Aug. 06, 2019
Surgeons have our lives in their hands, but most of us know more about the people who cut our hair than the doctors who cut our bodies. Here are insider tips on how to become a smarter, healthier patient.
To know which doctor is good, ask hospital employees
“Their word trumps an Ivy League degree, prestigious titles, and charm.” —Marty Makary, MD, author of Unaccountable: What Hospitals Won’t Tell You and How Transparency Can Revolutionize Health Care
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Ask about their complication rate
“If they don’t have one, they’re hiding something or haven’t operated enough to have one. No one is immune to complications.” —Arnold Advincula, MD, division chief, gynecologic surgery & urogynecology, Columbia University Medical Center
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Practically all surgeons have an inherent financial conflict of interest
“That’s because they are paid approximately ten times more money to perform surgery than to manage your problem conservatively.” —James Rickert, MD, an orthopedic surgeon in Bedford, Indiana
Don’t assume your primary care doctor’s recommendation is best
“Referrals may be politically motivated or be given because the doctors work within the same multi-specialty group.” —Howard Luks, MD, chief of sports medicine and arthroscopy at Westchester Medical Center and University Orthopaedics
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Ask if you can talk to former patients
“It’s like getting references for a babysitter.” —Marc Gillinov, MD, author of Heart 411: The Only Guide to Heart Health You’ll Ever Need
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Some surgeons won’t mention procedures they don’t know how to do
“I’ll see patients who were told they needed an open hysterectomy, even though it could be handled laparoscopically. That’s one reason it’s good to get a second opinion.” —Arnold Advincula, MD
Always ask ‘Who is going to take care of me after surgery?’
“You want to hear ‘I will see you on a regular basis until you have recovered fully.’ Often it can be residents. Sometimes it’s not anybody, especially after you’ve been discharged from the hospital.” —Ezriel “Ed” Kornel, MD, clinical assistant professor of neurological surgery at Cornell University
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It’s better to have an elective surgery early in the week
“Lots of doctors go away for the weekend and won’t be around to make sure you’re OK. If you go in on a Friday, and then on Saturday or Sunday something icky is coming out of your incision, you’re going to get someone who’s covering for your surgeon.” —General surgeon who blogs under the name Skeptical Scalpel
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Go to your preoperative appointment with a family member
“That reminds your doctor you’re not a gallbladder or a bypass or a valve—you’re a person who’s part of a family.” —Marc Gillinov, MD
It’s amazing how diligent people can be about searching for the right surgeon but have no idea who their anesthesiologist will be
“That’s just as important. Ask ‘Who’s going to be putting me to sleep?’ or ask me who I think the best anesthesiologist is. In some hospitals, you can request that person.” —General surgeon who blogs under the name Skeptical Scalpel
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Years ago, a patient sent his slides to three different pathologists and got three different answers
“I got very upset on hearing that. Now I never rely on just one pathology exam. If your doctor finds something, ask him to send your slides to a nationally recognized reference lab—not just one or two slides but the whole lot—and get a second interpretation.” —Bert Vorstman, MD, a prostate cancer specialist in Coral Springs, Florida
So often the risks on legal consent forms aren’t the things we actually worry about
“Or, there may be one complication we’re really concerned about. If you truly want to understand the dangers, ask your surgeon, ‘What is the risk that gives you the most pause?’” —Kevin B. Jones, MD, author of What Doctors Cannot Tell You: Clarity, Confidence and Uncertainty in Medicine
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Surgeons are control freaks
“When things don’t go our way in the operating room, we can have outbursts. Some of us curse, some throw instruments, others have tantrums.” —Paul Ruggieri, MD, author of Confessions of a Surgeon: The Good, the Bad, and the Complicated … Life Behind the O.R. Doors
Mistakes are probably more common than you would think
“But most of them don’t actually hurt people. I work with residents, and I don’t let them do anything that I can’t fix if they screw it up. If there’s an error that I fix that I’m sure won’t affect the patient at all, I’m not going to say anything about it. That would accomplish nothing except to stress out the patient.” —An orthopedic surgeon
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Some problems just don’t fix well with surgery, like many cases of back pain
“My advice? Grin and bear it. Some surgeons vehemently disagree. They say, ‘Oh, you have a degenerative disk, and that must be the culprit. Let’s fix it.’ But many people have a degenerative disk with no pain. There isn’t a lot of evidence that we’re helping very many people.” —Kevin B. Jones, MD
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Always ask about nonsurgical options and whether there’s anything wrong with waiting a little while
“Surgeons are busy, and they like to operate. A professor from my residency would say, ‘There is nothing more dangerous than a surgeon with an open operating room and a mortgage to pay.’” —Kevin B. Jones, MD
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Residents have to learn how to operate, and it’s required that an attending physician be ‘present’
But ‘present’ doesn’t mean he has to be in the operating room scrubbed in. At an academic institution, ask whether your surgeon will be actively participating in the surgery or just checking in every hour.” —Ezriel “Ed” Kornel, MD
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It’s always interesting to hear what people say when you’re giving them anesthesia
“I once had a guy who was a horse trainer who started going on about how this one horse was a sure thing to win. One of the nurses collected money from everyone in the operating room and bet on the horse. It came in second place. The smart people bet the horse to place, but some had bet the horse to win, so half the staff was happy, and the other was upset. He woke up and had no idea what kind of ruckus he’d caused.”—Michael Salzhauer, MD, a plastic surgeon in Miami, Florida
During my six weeks as a surgical intern in the ER, I inadvertently stuck myself twice with contaminated needles…
… briefly nodded off in the middle of suturing a leg laceration, accidentally punctured a guy’s femoral artery while trying to draw some blood, and broke up a fight between the family members of a guy who’d come in with a stab wound to the abdomen. I was slugged in the head by a delirious patient in an alcoholic rage, spat upon, coughed on, vomited on, farted on, bled on, and mistaken for an orderly.” —Paul Ruggieri, MD
When I get polite in the operating room, when I start saying ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ and talking in a monotone, that’s when nurses know things aren’t going well
“It’s this mechanism to maintain calm. When we become unglued, everyone becomes unfocused, and that’s when patients die. How you handle stress is absolutely critical.” —Kathy Magliato, MD
Your doctor should not push you to make a speedy decision about prostate cancer surgery
“Most prostate cancers are extremely slow-growing, and there is so much misleading information out there, so you should take your time.” —Bert Vorstman, MD
The only real way to understand what happened in the operating room is to read the operative note dictated by the surgeon
“If you have unanswered questions about your surgery, ask for the report.” —Paul Ruggieri, MD
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If you have pain in your calf after surgery, or if it swells and looks red, call your doctor right away
“Those are the main symptoms of a blood clot, which is a risk of just about every surgery.” —James Rickert, MD
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This is what really keeps us up at night
“It’s not making a mistake in the operating room; it’s the noncompliant patients. When patients don’t do what we tell them, bad things can happen.” —Kurian Thott, MD, an ob-gyn in Stafford, Virginia
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Obese people have no idea how challenging their care is
“Starting an IV is tough because chubby arms don’t have many visible veins. It’s difficult to place a central venous catheter. Post-op, they’re more likely to get infections. Just getting someone who weighs 300 pounds out of bed is hard.” —General surgeon who blogs under the name Skeptical Scalpel
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If you ask too many questions, you can be branded as a pain in the neck
“When one extremely hostile relative bombarded me every time I walked in, I developed a tendency not to go in the room. If you have three pages full of questions, show them to the nurse. Say ‘How many of these should I wait to ask the doctor about? How many can you help me with?’” —General surgeon who blogs under the name Skeptical Scalpel
Every time a patient dies, I think about the family, the funeral, the kids
“I operated on a man who had something very complex and died in the operating room. He had a wife and two children. When I came out to tell them, the children were screaming, ‘Mommy, Mommy, I want my daddy.’ That was very hard. Even though we present ourselves as very strong, we’re vulnerable to depression and other problems. We’re human.” —A surgeon in Florida
That tiny thank-you card that took you 15 seconds to write?
“It was very meaningful. Letters are a good reminder of how important this is and how people entrust themselves to us. I save every one.” —Marc Gillinov, MD
Patients think that we’re so wrapped up in our hectic schedules that we don’t care
“But we do. We care deeply. Those of us who are spiritual pray for our patients. My family and I pray for my patients at dinner the night before surgery.” —Kathy Magliato, MD
I was about to approach the back of a patient’s knee instead of the front for a biopsy
“Because of a checklist, I looked at the imaging again and thought, ‘Yikes! What am I doing?’ Thankfully, I caught the mistake before I even draped the patient, and no harm was done, but I felt horrible about it. It was more than a year ago, and I still think about it.” —Kevin B. Jones, MD
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Fatigue and impatience have undoubtedly contributed to some mistakes I’ve made in the operating room
“But unless you ask, your surgeon is not going to tell you that he was up all night on call before your procedure and that he may not be in tip-top form.” —Paul Ruggieri, MD
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I always ask at national conferences of doctors, ‘How many of you know of another doctor who should not be practicing medicine because he is too dangerous?’
“Every hand goes up.” —Marty Makary, MD
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Very often, plastic surgery patients don’t admit to a previous surgery, and I don’t find out until I’m in there
“I’ll go in on an eyelid or a nose, and it’s just a mess. If you don’t tell us you had lipo, there will be scar tissue, and the fat won’t come out normally. So please be 100 per cent honest. There’s no need to be embarrassed. We’ve heard it all, and we don’t judge.” —Andrew Ordon, MD, cohost of the television show The Doctors and a board-certified plastic surgeon
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Patients get really detail-oriented about a surgery technique but forget to focus on basics like pre-op and post-op instructions
“That’s just as, if not more, important.” —Andrew Ordon, MD
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The biggest mistake during recovery is not giving yourself enough of a break
“Give yourself time to heal after surgery. If you don’t, you can cause complications and prolong your recovery.”—Andrew Ordon, MD
If your doctor wants to give you a stent, always ask: Is this better than medicine?
“If you’re not having a heart attack or an unstable angina, you will do equally well with a stent or medicine, studies show. Having something permanently implanted in your body is not a risk-free proposition. There is evidence that thousands of people have had stents they likely did not need.” —Marc Gillinov, MD
If I had any kind of serious medical condition, I’d go to a teaching hospital
“You’ll get doctors involved with the latest in medicine. Even for simple cases, if there’s a complication that requires an assist device or a heart transplant, some hospitals may not be able to do it. At a university hospital, you also have the advantage of having a resident or physician bedside 24-7, with a surgeon on call always available.” —Tomas A. Salerno, MD
Before any operation, always ask what’s broken and how fixing it will help
“Just because you have a blockage in an artery doesn’t mean you need it fixed, especially if you don’t have symptoms.” —Marc Gillinov, MD
We’re all afraid of getting sued
“It’s the big black cloud hanging over us, and it permeates a lot of the things we do: the tests we run, the labs we order to make sure we’re not missing something. I’m guilty of that.” —Paul Ruggieri, MD
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Your surgeon may say it’s better to do your operation right away even if it’s not really urgent
“Why? If you let the patient leave the hospital and something adverse occurs, someone may raise the question ‘Why wasn’t the operation performed right away?’” —Tomas A. Salerno, MD
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